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Idea's for sleepless baby [May. 6th, 2007|11:21 pm]
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I have a 5 month old that is very stubborn. She will not go to sleep even though she yawns and cries about being tired. Anyone have any idea's?
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[User Picture]From: noodles937
2007-05-07 09:14 pm (UTC)
I have a daughter like that.. she *hated* going to sleep. It was like she was scared she was going to miss something while she was out. =)

My wife and i would turn on a Humidier (for the white noise) walk her around the room with all the lights off, whispering "Shhhhh" to her, all the while rocking her back and forth, and i mean really rocking her back.. so she would get used to being on her back.. usually within 5 minutes of this she was basically out.. we'd rock her the same way for a few more minutes then finally we'd rock her back right into her crib.

Does this explanation make any sense? It's totally clear in my mind.. lol
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[User Picture]From: gnolyn
2007-05-08 02:27 am (UTC)
My, but that really does sound familiar. Our boy Arthur (now just over two) was exactly the same. He literally fought sleep.

After much trial and error, and endless frustration, we found that a strict bedtime routine worked very well. We started putting him down for bed earlier (7:30) than we had been, and we kept it the same time every night. The bedtime ritual started after dinner, first with a warm bath, followed by a baby massage - laying him down after the bath on the change table and gently massaging him with a baby moisturizer. Then the clean diaper and pajamas. Finally, we turned on some quiet music (Peaceful Baby is our standard), turned the lights off in the room, and then I walked with him held against my chest. The first few times it still took a while to get him to sleep this way, but within a few nights he was asleep about 20 minutes after turning the music on.

Putting him to bed earlier actually had the effect of letting him sleep longer, and better. Before we started this routine, he just got too worked up and over tired to sleep well.

Oh, and we implemented a stuffed animal rule: part of the routine was holding a small, stuffed animal with him while we walked to the music.

He's two years old now, and we still have basically the same routine. If it ain't broke...

We also found the book No Cry Sleep Solution very helpful.
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